Hi Readers,
Today, i will write about “Being optimistic”, Due to the fact many people are viewing life negatively. It is literally impossible for anyone to have a smooth life, Mainly because people encounters difficulties, frustration, dissatisfaction and many more in their life.
The source of your negative views can be traced to your childhood or the environment you live in, During the process of growing up you saw disappointments,betrayal and failure, that lead you to negative views when you dealing with your current situation. So you got to change your perspective on this.
You got to let go of the assumption that the world is against you or human’s despise you, assumptions are not reasons, you should not assume that people hates you or dislike you. You got to see yourself as a cause, stop thinking about what is happening to you, start thinking about what you can make things happen and use your past experiences to build character and make better decisions, don’t let your past experiences turn you into someone who avoids risk at all cost.
You got to be positive with yourself, start by reminding yourself the way you see the world can be viewed differently. Tell yourself “Anything is possible”, You got to make yourself feel positive in the way you view thing. You also got to be contented of what you have, learn to love what you have and who you are. Finally i would say is your past is not equal to your future, you are the creator of your own future. Be confident!
“I am optimistic and confident in all that I do. I affirm only the best for myself and others. I am the creator of my life and my world. I meet daily challenges gracefully and with complete confidence. I fill my mind with positive, nurturing, and healing thoughts.” Quoted by Alice Potter
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Love, Shawn
I love people being optimistic.
Happy to know you and found this site.
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Hey there. Optimism you say? Being optimistic? Sometimes, things are so much easier said than done. I don’t have bad experiences of being hurt in the past. But what I dislike is the way in general society sometimes doesn’t live life the way that it was meant to be. Think about it. Many things have emerged in this new era of society. A lot of things that shouldn’t be there. For example, kids growing up too fast? Year nine girls selling off their bodies? Everyone used to be so innocent! I worry about the future sometimes.
I can’t be positive. I would rather remain neutral.
I apologise for such an inconsiderate comment.
I understand what you are trying to explain, but this are examples of life. What you said about the new era, is because of the environment we are living, which causes this to happen.
I agree, optimism is all about perspective. Your perspective can change due to the events that happened before in your life which may make it harder for you to be optimistic. But by surrounding yourself with good people who are there for you, they can change your perspective on things from pessimism to optimism. Life is full of choices, we can choose to be optimistic, or we can choose not to be, that choice is partially based on the past but that choice can also be easily influenced by those who surround yourself. The past is just that, the past. It doesn’t have to repeat itself, thats a choice that you get to make, not a choice that has already been made. Being optimistic changes things, it brings the good in people. It shows you what is there rather than what isn’t. It allows you to be more confident in who you are which is why optimism is such a key aspect in living a healthy life.
Well, being not optimistic is just being prepare for the worst thing to happen. So basically they’re just being sure of what they’re doing. They’re just prepairing for the worst possible outcome. I’m optimistic sometimes but also pessimistic sometimes.
Totally agree with you mingasaurus :p i love what you say about this
To me,A successful Life requires being optimistic, you wont love life without it. With optimistic, You’ll have confidence to face up challenges in life and reach your goal. Also you can make better decisions and choices and You’ll adapt easier to any environment.
Yes! correct khevin
totally! i love you comment!
Perspective hm? I need to stop looking at all the wrong things. If I was to seriously be frank with you guys, it’s just that I’ve always had a bad perspective about everything. I don’t know. But I can go personal here, I just won’t.
I should stop living in Gloomsville.
Haha! take it easy briggs, thing’s can be seen differently at times.
chill.
*thumbs up*
past is past, so we need to move on. and accept the reality behind it.
this makes me like being a more optimistic, lessen to think negative.
but i would also be negative thinker, ‘coz i already used to it. but, maybe, as time passes by, optimism will grow on me. ^^
Timmy, of course! rather then being pessimism you can be optimism.
Let the past be the past. Now you need to move forward! everything is different! put the past behind you.
Finally another brilliant post that have my +2 likes. haha. “you are the creator of your own future. Be confident!” I think for myself. not for others :O
Thank you
hhmmm .. let’s just say, i’m always optimistic when it comes to love .. because of course, when i love someone, i do my best to make that person like me, and i’m being optimistic in the sense that i knew that somehow i have a chance .. or i’m being optimistic when i think i can control or manipulate things .. sometimes, i can’t help not to be pessimistic about how others will judge me .. it’s because we can’t control others .. what do u think ? am i being pessimistic, or maybe, i’m just afraid .. maybe, i fear rejection ..
No, do not feel pessimistic at all, love is all about giving it all you have. Your not afraid of rejection just that your afraid of the outcome. Be optimistic! everything will be fine!
Being Optimistic