Hi Readers,
Due to a server error, i did not post on 1st of March. On 28 Feb i wrote about “Conscience“, everyone has conscience but conscience comes with consequences and that is why we must accept the facts that whatever happen has already happened. So we must accept the reality. So today i will be writing about “Accepting reality”.
When things really happen in our life, we are often stuck in accepting the reality that it has happened it is because we can’t get past it. By accepting reality we will be able to move forward instead of remaining in that situation or stage, there are people who do not face the reality of what has happen because they bare grudges,resentment,guilt, or any other form of resentment.
Reality is a cruel fact, because it will either hurt us or make us happy. But before we accept reality or make any improvement, we must first accept our-self, accepting who we really. People always thought that they are able to view reality in their own mind, however reality can be only seen in a bigger picture. We should placed our-self into different perspective views and to see things clearly and understand it.
There are some people who have difficulty accept the reality and eventually they start thinking negatively or wrong, which causes them to unable to think clearly. We should accept the reality so that we can view and think in a bigger picture and understand things clearly, and notice that life has a path which you deem desire.
Every reality poses a problems, however problems have solutions, every obstacle an opportunity, every negative a positive. Accepting of reality is based on personal preferences, if you do not wish to accept the reality, holding to the past only stop you from moving forward.
Also some people have difficulty in forgiving others due to unable to accept the reality, they simply can’t get past whatever “wrong” the other person has done to them, because they felt injustice and compelled to tell others around them. Reality is a part of everyday life, we face it every second, every minute, every moments. Whatever happens is the reality and sometimes we don’t like reality, but it is what it is.
“Through the picture, I see reality. Through the word, I understand it.” Quoted by Sven Lidman
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Love, Shawn
really bites
Its not good to keep our self believe that we are not having problems… we must face reality in order to grow… and learn something from it….
Reality is evident here in our world. Light, darkness, colors, facts, everything is real even lies. Reality is what we see around us. It is what makes us living here in the world. Weshould always face reality because it is what it is. Living in lies is like living in a false world, making you feel like you’re dead.
Abbey: The truth is that it really bites..
Wow, well yes, agree agree… hmmm basic realization of reality is when you wake up from a dream that you liked. You feel somehow that the dream is true, that somehow you want the dream to go on, however when you wake up, you must face the reality that the moment which made you happy is actually just from your mindset and vice versa.
Nino: yes i agree! face reality to grow up and learn something.
Miche: Yes i agree with you, its the truth in fact.
usually,ppl will say ‘accept the reality’ when something bad happen to somebody,but not when something good happen,weird isn’t it?
Slayer: Exactly right
this is why we humans always fail to realized and never face up to reality.
Reality hurts but if you don’t face it, it’ll become a burden to you
Woon: yes i agree with you
Slyvester: yeah! it will not only be a burden but also a tragic
Reality? I often describe it as the illusions that this world makes us believe. -We define reality as something we believe is true.
Some people in great power creates lies and labels it as truth.
They made as believe in their self-proclaimed truth.
So what really is reality?
“The perception of reality is a result of our influence on the world and its influence on us. ” -Heisenberg
But in actuality, the safest way to differentiate reality from fiction is to lessen our doubts and increasing our faith, in that way only, we can perceive things objectively.
Hannah: What you said makes sense but however what you meant by distorting the truth by creating lies. That is self-proclaimed. Yes this is somehow the reality that is happening. But perception of reality is us.
haha! your right by lessen doubts and increase faith.
Where do you get this amount of ideas shawn?
I think you have talent, in making numbers of blogs..
Hannah: Haha! care to explain more about “Making numbers of blogs” seems exciting.
I got my ideas from everyday life, as part of my life and also visualizing my life. Talent is self cultivated unless your a prodigy, however i’m not a prodigy. HAHA!
Accepting Reality is one of the Hardest things to do in Life.
Timmy: it is really the hardest thing to accept and to do.
Reality can be cruel. I, myself had trouble accepting reality this past year. But i learned how to accept it with the help of my friends and family. After reading this blog twice, it actually meant something to me. Thanks shawn
Nenuchka: Yes it’s cruel. It’s great that you can accept it through helps! some people doesn’t even have to accept reality. No problem!
been waiting for this.hahah..yes,i agree.in order to accept reality we must accept ourselves first.reality can make us happy or make us sad.negative and positive ..we just have to accept that..if its unfair for you.then accept it then.who said that Life is fair? we must accept reality.for if we do it.we may move on and improve as a person,definitely..IT may be hard..but we SHOULD accept reality ..and we CAN accept reality.
the hardest thing to accept is reality and as the saying goes, ‘the greatest opponent is always ourselves’.
Bennjoe: Great that you understand what i said
it’s the fact after all.
Tommy: Yeah we are the only opponent to face in our-self, we can under have a opponent to spur you on working harder or as a goal.
truth hurts but its even better than to live your whole life full of lie
Krishna: Yes it’s better then living your life full of lies and conspiracy. Face reality.
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I totally agree.We must accept reality.even if its for the worst.or for the better.Everything around us is real.so let us not live with our own delusions
“I think therefore I am”
Your perception is the only true reality
Garnet: Yes we must not live in a world of our own delusion.
Dale: Yes your perception is the true reality but don’t make your perception into others.
step 1 will always be accepting ^^ from there we’ll know what to do.. we should know that there’s no other way to go but to accept
Eunice: Yes always be accepting, accept anything be it whatever that is happening.
“Accepting of reality is based on personal preferences, if you do not wish to accept the reality, holding to the past only stop you from moving forward.”
That statement is indeed TRUE.
Reality comes in different flavors and spices.
It depends how are we going to adopt it in our personal lives, as I always say, “It’ll all depend on the person how will he/she is going to take in those circumstances in life.”
Reality bites, reality sucks at times. But oh well, this is life, this is reality, what we should just do is to accept it, but not run away from it.
Well, reality is reality. There is no good or bad, it’s just it! It’s not our dream, and we have to accept that we cannot change it easily.
Most ppl or should i say all of the ppl always feel hard to accept only negative things about reality but not positive ones. Some get themselves drunk just to forget it, but they never realized that it is not a solution and nothing has changed except for them forgetting it for an instance.
I think that sometimes negative things can make or motivate us to do something better. This helps the person move forward without regretting too much, yet use it in a positive way. So, accepting reality is really important in continuing our lives.
Chevylle: Totally correct. depends on the person mindset, we can’t stop them from accepting or anything. Just that if we run away from reality, we will start to contradict ourself.
Elfie: i agree with what you said. so much thing and humans don’t understand it.
Reality vs Illusion,
u can never bring the past back, whatever you do, it’s past
accept the truth and face reality
sorry for the late post
tsk tsk
school stinks
Gherick: It’s okay
well your right, truth and reality… seems so far apart.. reality and illusion is a dimension…